The Dangers of Diet Culture: What Parents Can Do to Be a Positive Influence on Their Children

in Clinical, Developmental, Featured Article, Pop Culture, Public News

Diet culture puts unrealistic pressure on everyone — children and adults alike — to live within a narrow range of false and dangerous ideals. It does not accept that healthy people can come in many shapes and sizes. Diet culture sends the wrong message that people need to be in thinner bodies in order to be valued, and mistakenly pressures people to value being thin even when thinness may be disconnected from any real health benefits.

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Coping Ahead: Working with Clients to Prepare for Disaster Anniversaries

in Clinical, Featured Article, Public News, Therapy

The anniversary of a hurricane or other disaster can provide an important opportunity to review a client’s gains as well as process reactions to the disaster, continue to work through grief responses, and collaborate to cope with unhelpful reactions ahead of time. Anniversary reactions that are more intense may require more targeted treatments for trauma, anxiety, or other significant symptoms.

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Trust in Human Relationships

in Developmental, I/O, Public News

Let’s pause and think about the word “trust.” It is such a powerful word. It is likely flattering when someone says they trust you. And it is likely worrisome when someone says they do not trust you. Yet, whether it is an absence of trust or simply a tarnished trust, we must understand the human dynamics before we can ameliorate human relationships hampered by trust issues. The following will explore the meaning of the word trust as it applies to a person’s trust of another person.

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Let Freedom Ring

in Opinion, Pop Culture, Public News, Social

How do we fight an invisible enemy that requires us to go against our basic values, to change our behaviors, our way of life.
We Americans are having a tough time making this transition. In order to succeed against this invisible enemy, we must change our perceptions and behaviors. We must re-structure our concept of freedom and we must change our behaviors.

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How I Learned to Listen to my Inner Psychologist?

in Developmental, Public News

Toward the end of my first stint as a child psychologist, a high school classmate’s sister called during the ten-minute gap between patients. I took the call because I remembered her, and I was curious. It turned out to be one of those times my own thoughts came out of someone else’s mouth, which is why it’s stuck with me so long.

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Caring for the Self in 2021

in Clinical, Ethics, Public News

When we are under high stress, it can be tempting to put off self-care.  This can be especially true when our pre-covid routines have been so disrupted.  But I hope that many of us have self-care activities that we have been able to keep, and perhaps have been able to find new ones.  One of my favorites for myself and my clients is mindfulness, which is perhaps best practiced in isolation, and can be practiced almost anywhere and anytime we can find a few moments.

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Pandemic Theme Hints: Who else forgot that Groundhog Day has a happy ending?

in Pop Culture, Public News, Therapy

Since the pandemic started earlier this year, I’ve found myself in the interesting position of not only using theme hints to establish common language between myself and my individual clients, but in using the SAME themes across different clients in order to navigate what seem to be very common concerns among the majority, if not the entirety, of my caseload: coping with an increased sense of isolation, anxiety related to the uncertainty of the future, an increasing sense of powerlessness regarding one’s circumstances, and the mind-numbing sameness of the day-to-day in this “new normal.”

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Should I Coordinate with a Sex Therapist? The Answer is YES!

in Clinical, Public News, Therapy

When I introduce myself as a sex therapist to other mental health providers and professionals in the medical field, I get a mixed bag of reactions. Some respond with enthusiastic curiosity about the strangest cases I’ve worked with in the past. More often; however, I encounter providers who give me a sideways glance and mutter an uneasy, “Oh, that’s interesting.”

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